We love to scream “I’m unbothered,” yet we spend hours plotting a clapback, waiting for karma to spin the block, or trying to prove a point. But truthfully… if you’re seeking revenge, you are bothered.
It takes mental energy to think of a way to hurt someone who hurt you. It takes time to try to “show them.” And if they still have that kind of power over your emotions, they’re not out of your life — they’re just hiding in the corners of your mind.
Let’s be honest: revenge is a reaction. And every reaction is proof that something still has access to your peace.
Walking away, healing in silence, choosing not to retaliate — that’s real power. That’s what “unbothered” actually looks like. Not because they deserved grace, but because you deserve peace.
So the next time you want to get even, ask yourself: “Am I healing… or am I holding on?”
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